Jennifer Lopez Felt Uncomfortable When Sean ‘P. Diddy’ Combs Told Her He Loved Her: ‘I Was Like, What?’

Jennifer Lopez and Sean “P. Diddy” Combs had an explosive relationship, igniting the music industry as the “it” couple from 1999 to 2001. They first met on the set of Lopez’s 1999 music video for “If You Had My Love” and hit it off immediately. However, their romance had a unique beginning, marked by Combs’ quick declaration of love.

The Start of a Fast-Paced Romance

In a YouTube clip, Lopez recalled how their relationship began with an instant attraction. “Immediately, he let me know that he liked me, right away,” Lopez explained. “He was like, ‘I love you.’ I was like, ‘What? OK.’ It was just very fast. But we did have a connection. We were both very ambitious and both kind of had the same ideas about our careers. We loved working, and we wanted to do great things.”

Despite the whirlwind start, Lopez and Combs developed a deep connection over time. Lopez mentioned that they “did fall in love” and became “very close,” with Combs acting as a mentor due to his extensive knowledge of the music business.

Love and Its Challenges

Jennifer Lopez has admitted that she “loved” Combs “very much” during their relationship. Despite this, their differing ideals about life and family eventually led to their breakup. Combs’ alleged infidelity and his lingering feelings for Kim Porter added to the strain.

“We just didn’t have the same kind of ideals about life, and family, and stuff like that,” Lopez said of the breakup. “It just wasn’t a good relationship for me. It didn’t have so much to do with him as it had to do with me at the time. I had to learn to care about myself a little bit more and put up certain boundaries of what I would accept and what I wouldn’t accept. Really, he was just being himself.”

A Complicated Past and Legal Troubles

Lopez’s involvement with Combs might resurface in light of his ongoing legal battles. In March 2024, Homeland Security raided two of Combs’ properties, and footage from 2016 showed him attacking his ex-girlfriend, Cassie Ventura. Their past legal troubles, including a nightclub shooting in 1999 involving both Combs and Lopez, could bring her back into the spotlight.

“Jennifer Lopez’s presence the night of the shooting incident and then departing in the same vehicle as Combs makes her a witness with firsthand knowledge and could subject her to being subpoenaed to testify under oath,” New York lawyer Pete Gleason told In Touch Weekly. “If there are any criminal charges or civil claims not outside the statute of limitations, this would likely prove problematic for Lopez.”

Jennifer Lopez and Sean “P. Diddy” Combs’ relationship remains a notable chapter in their lives, marked by intense love, ambition, and eventual separation. Despite the challenges, their connection and shared experiences in the music industry have left a mark on both of their careers.